Cloth diapers are all the rage right now.  Funny, huh?  When I first told my mother that we were planning on using cloth, she grimaced and proceeded to tell me how horrible cloth diapers are.  How she hated the plastic pants and that they cause really bad rashes.  How we would have blowouts and leaks all the time (I’ve only ever had leaks with the newborn AIOs and not a single blowout.) She even offered to buy all my disposables. (I let her.)

But I’m stubborn.

And I don’t mind doing laundry.

Now, I didn’t go into cloth diapering blind.  I have a couple friends who use cloth.  One uses prefolds with covers and the other uses all-in-ones with inserts.  Me?  I use a mix because that’s what we got at our baby shower.

Here’s the low down on what we use.

Newborn All-In-Ones from BumGenius

These tiny tushie covers are made to fit itty bitty bums.  We used these until Baby Spork was about 8lbs.  Honestly, I didn’t really like these.  I’m not sure if I was doing something wrong, but they seemed to leak a lot.  And not around the legs.  It was always around the back edge.  Again, could definitely be user error.  We mainly used disposables until he got big enough for the regular All-In-Ones.  (P.S. If you make them too tight, their feet turn purple…)

Prefolds with Covers

We use a combination of prefold diapers* (both Kushies and good ol’ Gerber) with Snappis and covers (we’re currently using Thirsties Duo Wraps, size 1**).  The Kushies are extremely absorbant and don’t feel as wet.  They also don’t grip the Snappis as well due to the denser material.  This thicker weave also makes them a bit bulkier in my opinion.  The birdseye cloth versions grip the Snappis incredibly well, but feel wetter faster.  They don’t seem as bulky as some of the other varieties (hemp, cotton flannel, etc.).  Baby Spork doesn’t seem to have a preference of material as long as he’s not really wet or poopy.

Prefolds are cheaper than All-In-Ones and you can supplement your stash of diapers for less green.  But there are more pieces to deal with as well as the learning curve of how to fold the diapers and get the covers adjusted properly.  The trick is to make sure that none of the prefold is outside of the cover.

BumGenius 4.0 All-In-Ones

These are your traditional All-In-Ones with a cover and insert.  They actually come with two inserts: one newborn sized and one adjustable.  They’re simple and easy to use.  You simply adjust the snaps to fit your baby, stuff an insert in, and strap it on.  The long insert has snaps to be made shorter and you can use the newborn insert to double up for nighttime diapering.  I have both the snap and velcro*** versions.  The velcro is easier to get on a squirming baby, but both are pretty simple.  The part I don’t like?  Removing the insert out of a yucky diaper prior to laundering.

BumGenius Freetime All-In-Ones

These are really quite clever once you figure out how to use them.  They are styled almost identical to the BumGenius 4.0s, with a couple exceptions.  First, the absorbant material isn’t anywhere near the back and front of the diaper.  They have cleverly eliminated the areas that can roll and leak onto clothes.  Second, the inserts are part of the diaper.  You simply flip them into place and strap it on.  No stuffing, no removing a nasty insert.  It takes a little practice to get the inserts adjusted properly, but after about a half dozen times, I have it down.  I also have both the snap and velcro versions of these.  As with the 4.0s, it doesn’t really make a difference other than quickness with which you can secure the diaper on a squirming baby.  I’m sure this will become more important as Baby Spork gets wilder on the changing table.  The downside to these is that they are bulkier than their stuffed counterparts.

Wetbags, Diaper Pails, and More

If you leave the house with cloth diapers, you’ll want to have a wet bag or two.  We have a pack of Kushies On the Go (a gift from my lovely cousin) as well as one I made myself (you can find PUL fabric at JoAnns).  You’ll want something big enough to fit a couple diapers (depending on the type you use), but small enough to shove in your diaper bag.  We carry these regardless of what diapers Baby Spork is wearing because they’re also great for wet or poopy clothes.

We use a garbage can (similar to this style) with a PUL liner (a gift from my friend who does prefolds and covers) for our dry pail.  It isn’t very big, so I wash**** my diapers at least every other day.  We have two liners, so I wash one liner with the diapers and put the other one in the pail.  The inserts and prefolds usually get thrown in the dryer and the covers and AIOs are put on the secret clothesline.

I’m not militant about cloth diapers.  For the most part, we use cloth at home and disposables out and about.  Cloth takes up more space, so if I’m just making a quick run and want to grab my purse and not the big ‘ol diaper bag, I throw in a handful of disposables.  If we’re going somewhere that I’m taking the big bag and it won’t be terribly inconvenient, I take cloth.  My goal isn’t to save the planet by using cloth diapers.  I really just wanted less garbage to deal with.  I’d rather do laundry than take the garbage out.

Finally, cloth diaper ease is all about prep. If you’re using prefolds, have them folded in thirds and ready to go with Snappis and covers handy.  Using inserts? Pre-stuff them.  Using Freestyle?  No prep necessary other than to have them clean and dry.  Does it all seem like too much work? Go with disposables. Whatever you choose, don’t feel guilty about it.  As long as your baby is clean, dry, and rash free*****, you’re doing a good job.

*The way I originally learned to fold prefold cloth diapers was for older babies/toddlers and obviously didn’t work on my tiny newborn and I was frustrated.  That was, until I got a package of Kushies with a diagram of how to fold the diapers differently.  Lightbulb!  Suddenly they fit!

**I really like the adjustable nature of the Duo Wraps, even though I’ll have to upgrade to another size at some point.  They make fitting the covers to my tiny hipped, big bellied boy a lot easier.

***Pro-Tip: Make sure to stick the flaps to their keeper tabs before laundering or you’ll have all sorts of gunk stuck in your velcro and have to clean it.  Ask me how I know…

****To clean my diapers, I run them through a cold rinse and then a hot wash and then a cold rinse again.  I have a top loading agitation style machine that doesn’t have a lot of options.  I use homemade laundry detergent and a dash of OxyClean.

*****We’ve been rash free so far.